Social Media Addiction

Now that I am done with college, I am noticing how much I am addicted to social media. Today, I spent an hour playing the family feud on Facebook. While social media has revolutionized the way we communicate and spend our time, there seems to less and less time in peoples lives for things like friends, family, being creative, and especially having a hobby.

Some people are so addicted they chat, text, blog, etc. while going to the bathroom! Even, I have considered doing it. I mean, the newspaper is one thing, but jeeeeeze! People should at least make bathroom time a private moment in their day. I feel rude if I am taking interrupting someone while their taking a number 2. It just be weird.

And don't start me on how text has led to a decrease in the way we type. I understand abbreviating "you" to "u" in a text, but in a letter! Especially, if its to an employer. I can't believe the amount of people in the business world say they get letters like that. LEARN TO WRITE FORMALLY! Your job could depend on it.

My total time spent on blogger today: 10minutes......add in Facebook and youtube, and I wasted my morning again

Bi-Sexuality

There is the bi-sexual that is afraid or not ready to fully commit to one sex over the other.

There is the bi-sexual that simply loves SEX. As long as you have a hole, you are okay in his or her book. Addicted to sex much?

Finally, there is the bi-sexual that becomes so close to friend that they feel they owe them more or want to be more. Thus, entering a physical attraction to them and wanting a relationship.

This is my take on bi-sexual.


From my experiences, this are the only types of people I consider bi-sexual. If you do not fall in this category then your either gay, straight, or just have not met your type.

Being bi is confusing, but when your with that special someone it means that in all of the entire world that person is meant for you. :)

Forcing Friendship

My mother once told me when it comes to friendship, it's not about quantity, but quality. I hold friendship so dear to my heart, that it often causing me to be irrational or leaves me depressed. On the flip side, its my motivation and form of happiness. While in high school, I was nothing special unlike my older brother (who was Mr. Popular). However in college, I would consider myself in the "in-crowd." I get this celebrity feeling because so many people know my name, but I do not know theres. I feel that I have a lot of great friends, while Mr. Popular has next to none at this point (in my opinion).

My mom was once Mrs. Popular, but now only has one really good friend (not to say she doesn't have a good group of people she associates with). The point is that quality is better than quantity. I have one friend, who I think I value so much, I'd take a bullet for him. His friendship is worth more than anything I could fathom. Perhaps, this is quality?

I also have had another friend (which I don't consider him much of one anymore) in college. He had a hard life from our conversations. However after a year of friendship, I learned that I cannot force him being my friend. I have tried to stay connected, but he continues to make me feel like I am a dumby. A friendship does have to be mutual and both have to put in effort. For if the other lack, only negative feelings seem to emerge. If a friendship is meant to die or pass on, then I let it die. Wouldn't you rather end on a good note than a bad one? Wouldn't you rather have goods memories than bad ones in your relation to your friendships?

Purpose

As in life, everything has a purpose. As a way to vent, express my thoughts & feelings, and give insight to my way of life, I've decided to create a blog to better convey and remember the lessons and feeling I have had through out my life.

It's a bit weird for my to confined my personal life in some electronic form that is open to the anyone to read. I feel its a quality generation Y, the millennials, all share. This fascination with publicly displaying our life via electronic media. However, I actually would like to someone to come across this and actually feel or even learn from my life experiences and feelings. I am by no means a perfect role model, but I feel there is a lesson to be learned through all experiences.

Here are mine...